Business Development 2.0
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Connecting to Anybody and Everbody On LinkedIn Kills Sacred Trust
Jul 19th
My business relationships are very sacred, and since I do not share them with “just anybody” in the real world, I shouldn’t online either. Nor should you.
The other night, my friend Jonathan Senger and I got to talking about who we connect with, on what platforms, and what our general rules are for connecting on social media tools (we both agree that we do not connect with “just anybody” on Facebook, as that is primarily for personal use). He told me about a recent situation whereby he wanted to contact a person that was connected to one of his direct contacts on LinkedIn. When asked, Jonathan’s direct contact replied that he did not know that person very well and felt uncomfortable, if not inadequate, about making the introduction. Jonathan solidified a dormant belief I’ve had about LinkedIn when he said that participating in LinkedIn that way completely defeats it’s purpose. Connections with vague or very casual acquaintances for the mere sake of having “big numbers” means that nobody will have trusted relationships.
I Want My LinkedIn Connections to Know That They Are Trusted and Can Count on Any of My Other Connections
In the past I accepted, and even sought, connection requests from pretty much anybody on LinkedIn. My thought was “what can it hurt to be connected with tons of people?” And luckily my LinkedIn participation had been cold until recently, and I did not concentrate on building connections as much as I did with my Twitter following, (281 on LinkedIn as of this post, versus 36,000 on Twitter). Nonetheless, I have begun cleaning up my connections by removing people I don’t know very well or that I wouldn’t be absolutely comfortable with in a referral situation.








